We Stood At The Turning Point

We Stood At The Turning Point

How many thousands of times have I read that line as part of How It Works (p58)  in the Big Book? And I think about my relapses. All of them. Not just the “Went to treatment, white-knuckled it for a year and then ‘suddenly’ had a drink.” The...
Coping Mechanisms – How Healthy Are Yours?

Coping Mechanisms – How Healthy Are Yours?

We strive to develop positive coping skills in recovery because they help us deal with urges, cravings, and our triggers to use.  Remember, coping skills can be healthy or unhealthy – and are the sum total of ways that we deal with stress, trauma, and other problems...
Ever find your mind racing down a path you don’t want to travel?

Ever find your mind racing down a path you don’t want to travel?

Ever find your mind racing down a path you don’t want to travel? Catastrophizing about the future? Engaging mental gymnastics inside your head to debate points or events now irrelevant? Why do we torment ourselves so? My experience indicates the answer is this:...
Metaphors of Recovery – 2/15/2015

Metaphors of Recovery – 2/15/2015

So many principles of recovery….and life…cross my mind when I’m out hiking. Helps me maintain perspective. It’s not just about the exercise and the fresh air and sunshine. Patience, nurture, faith, acceptance, healing – rebirth. The tree...
Fitness Tips – Getting Started – 2/10/15

Fitness Tips – Getting Started – 2/10/15

The best exercise is the one you want to do! While I want to encourage readers to get active in recovery, there are some important things to consider first, especially if you’ve recently stopped drugging and drinking. In early recovery we are more prone health...